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Saturday, 6 October 2012

wife declares in court that her husband is a thief



An eight-year-marriage between Mr  Adeloba Ogunrinde and his wife, Taiwo, has hit the rocks as the court separated the couple over the allegation that the husband stole the proceeds from the wife’s  kerosene and recharge cards business.
Taiwo, 32,  begged an  Agege Grade A Customary  Court to separate them, maintaining that the continuation of the marriage will ruin her life and business.
The wife said her business was going into comatose by the perpetual habit of her husband to  steal the little money she made from it.
She added that her mother transferred the business to her in order for her to make ends meet.  ” But instead of contributing to the growth of the business,  my husband doesn’t want me to progress, he stole the whole money and make me a debtor”.
Taiwo said that her parents rescued her again by giving her N80,000 which she invested in  the trade, but she could not afford to rent a shop.  She claimed that her husband hardly gave her feeding allowance, adding that he gave his children N200 once in a week.
According to her,  she had to pack out of Adeloba’s house when she  realised that the burden was so much on her as her husband hardly paid  N10,000 out of  their children’s N40,000 school fees.
Adeloba denied the allegations and claimed that he had  been paying N25,000  school fees, and N10,000 monthly feeding allowance.  The court said since it could not  force  two unwilling adults  together, it  had no choice than to dissolve the marriage.
It therefore ordered that custody of the children should remain with Taiwo while Adeloba would pay N55,000 for education and N5,000 for medicals.

Friday, 5 October 2012

True Confession: Woman who sold her child for N4 million in Nigeria




NOTE: After this confession, I will close this email and you may not be able to reach me through it again. This is for identity reason, as I have been warned not to disclose this. I also know that NAPTIP or how do they call them, will come after me. I need to avoid this. I’m not educated, but I have to trust someone to write this piece for me for your newspaper. At least I can read, so I can monitor all the comments that will pour in as a result of my distasteful act. I’m ready to receive any kind of insult, and possibly commit suicide if…

This is not fictitious. I confess with tears streaming from my eyes. Do not pity me. I don’t pity myself. I consider myself a greedy fool who doesn’t even deserve to live for just another day.

Permit me to tell you how it all started. I had a child out of wedlock. I couldn’t have taken the child to any particular man because none was going to accept him either. This is because of the kind of life I have lived as a young girl of 24. Quite frankly, I was a prostitute. I can’t tell who the father of my baby is, even as I make this confession. I decided to keep the child just to avoid all the embarrassment associated with this.

I live in lagos. It is difficult to survive down here, considering that I also had a baby to care for. My baby was just 9 months when it all happened. I was fed up with life, and I told one of my friends that I was ready to sell my baby to survive so long as I know he would be safe. She passively laughed at my ignoble assertion. However, two weeks after we discussed, some people called me from the North, that they would like to meet me. I thought they were my usual customers, until I saw two men in my small apartment three days later. They said they were informed that I was willing to sell my child. I asked how they got to know, and they showed me their identity cards. They were police officers and had been asked to do the transaction with me on behalf of a man whose identity they kept secret.

At first, I was scared. And I told them angrily that I was not that kind of person. They were so persistent that they even showed me the cheque signed by one of the officers. I ordered them out of my room and they left that day. I thought they would be calling me to bother me, but they didn’t. I was full of regrets. I was caught in between constant thought of the money and the adverse effect of losing my child to a total stranger. Different ideas were circling in my head, until I took one last decision. I picked up my phone after three days of my meeting with the police officers and I asked them to come down as I had accepted to do the transaction. They had warned me that it won’t be very funny if at the end I still go ahead to treat them the way they were treated the last time they came; but I assured them of my total cooperation.

They came again the next day. I was sobbing when they walked in. Yes, I was crying for my child because I knew that after that day, I won’t see him again. They came in a police van, apparently to take my child away with it. They said the Alhaji who wanted the child was waiting. I asked whether my child was going to be killed. They took pity on me and told me that the man who wanted the child never had a child, and that had occasioned their trip down to the lagos in search of a child. They assured me that nothing was going to happen to the child, but that I should take my mind off my baby, as I was never going to see him again. They said that after the payment had been made, the child would cease to be mine. I wept as I handed over my child to one of them who sat at the back of the van. We drove to one of the banks where the transaction took place. Sincerely, my account was credited and they left. Ten minutes after their departure, I collapsed in the bank premises in tears, leaving many people to wonder what could be wrong with me. I called them to return my child but they said it was too late.

The painful aspect of my trouble is that I didn’t use the money to do any reasonable thing. As I speak to you, my account has gone down, and I can’t really point to any reasonable thing I have done with the money, apart from the car that I bought few months after the incident. People around me don’t know what happened to my child as I keep telling them that my baby is with my mum in the village.

I’m making this confession because I doubt if I may survive this CURSE I have brought upon myself. The last cry of my baby re-echoes each time I’m alone. I hear him cry into the silence of the night when I’m alone in my room. I have not known peace since I sold my child. I have had accident up to ten times since the fateful day. None of the accidents was unconnected to absence minded.

The guilt continues to live in me. Now, I’m contemplating suicide. All I want is your advice as I find very useful comments on this site each time I log in with my phone. I hardly make comments but I read your blog a lot. Please tell me what to do. I want to get my child back, but I don’t even have a clue on what to do. I don’t even know exactly where my child is now. I think I have been so foolish. Don’t feel any remorse for me. Give me the best advice – exactly what you would tell your sister if she found herself in my shoes. I am waiting.

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WORLD BANK : No reliable data on Nigeria’s poverty rate, reports are mired in controversy.


World Bank President Jim Yong Kim
The World Bank has said there is no reliable data with which to correctly measure the decline or increase in Nigeria’s poverty rate.
In a video press conference to mark the release of Africa’s Pulse, an analysis of issues shaping the continent’s economic future, the World Bank’s Chief Economist for the African region, Mr. Shanta Devarajan, said the poverty rate in the continent’s resource rich was reducing slower than in non-rich resource nations.
Answering a specific question on Nigeria’s poverty rate, Devarajan said the subject was very controversial and suggested that the country should invest more in the production of statistics that were reliable.
“We (World Bank) don’t know Nigeria’s poverty rate. We don’t know whether it is going up or coming down. There is a lot controversy surrounding it. There is need to invest in data,” he said.
The National Bureau of Statistics had in February released figures that showed that the nation’s poverty level was increasing. The report was mired in controversy as it was rejected by the Federal Government.
The Statistician-General of the Federation, Dr. Yemi Kale, had said, “It remains a paradox … that despite the fact that the Nigerian economy is growing, the proportion of Nigerians living in poverty is increasing every year.
“NBS estimates that this trend may have increased further in 2011 if the potential positive impacts of several anti-poverty and employment generation intervention programmes are not taken into account.”
According to him, the poverty rate in Nigeria may have risen to 71.5 per cent, 61.9 per cent, and 62.8 per cent using the relative, absolute and dollar-per-day measures, respectively, adding that the picture would become clearer when the Annual Socio-Economic Survey would be completed later in the year.
Devarajan, however, said the continent needed to translate the high growth rate it was enjoying into poverty reduction, adding that job creation remained an important instrument for poverty reduction.
He said the continent had a large young population that could make it a powerhouse in the future, but regretted that with the slow rate of job creation, the young people might end up working in the informal sector as their parents.
In a statement issued at the end of the conference, the World Bank said Africa was expected to grow at 4.8 per cent for all of 2012.
Excluding South Africa, the continent’s largest economy, growth in sub-Saharan Africa was forecast to rise to six per cent.
African exports rebounded notably in the first quarter of 2012, growing at an annualised pace of 32 per cent, up from the 11 per cent recorded in the last quarter of 2011, it said.
The statement read in part, “African countries have not been immune to the recent bout of market volatility stemming from the Euro area crisis, as well as the growth slowdown that is occurring in some of the largest developing economies, in particular China, which remains an important market for Africa’s mineral exporters.
“However, consistently high commodity prices and strong export growth in those countries, which have made mineral discoveries in recent years, have fuelled economic activity and are expected to underpin Africa’s economic growth for the rest of 2012.”
With the global economy still in fragile condition, Africa’s Pulse warned that the continent’s strong growth rates could yet be vulnerable to deteriorating market conditions in the Euro-zone.
It stated, “In addition, recent spikes in food and grain prices are a cause for concern. An unprecedented hot and dry summer in the United States, Russia and Eastern Europe led to reduced yields on both maize and wheat production worldwide. Africa’s Sahel region is already suffering from higher food prices, high rates of malnutrition and recurring crisis and insecurity.
“Furthermore, swarms of desert locusts and the ongoing conflict in The Sahel also undermine the region’s food security. Countries like Mali and Niger are already suffering from locust invasions with a possibility that the swarm could move to neighbouring countries such as Mauritania and Chad.”

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX BY PASTOR E. A. ADEBOYE

Hello everybody, LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Proverbs 4:23, Proverbs 6: 23-27 be careful what you take in, the music and movies you watch could desensitizes you to the truth. It is the truth you know that will set you free. Colossians 3:5-6 you are to honour God with your body, sex is not allowed outside marriage. Even though Nike may say 'Just do it!" You are not to have SEX! The simple thought of sex crossing your mind is not a sin but the desire for sex is the sin! Sex goes beyond the physical, it's spiritual and emotional! In the bible, when a man sleeps with his wife the bible says "He knew his wife" but when a young man sleeps with an unmarried woman the bible says "He laid with her" Don't let anybody deceive you, you can know them by their words. e.g "You don't need to tell anybody what we are about to do!" If a guy comes to you with a condom, he is a con(artist) and you are dumb! Virginity is something you give away and not what is taken from you by force! If you were violated and tampered with, only your virginity is broken, you destiny isn't, so don't mess up yourself! You are still so precious in God's sight. God values you; He values your body so honor Him with it! 85% of those who live together before getting married end up divorced. 50% of marriages in UK and 80% of black marriages in US end up in divorce! If you sell yourself cheap, you end up being treated anyhow. A man who cannot treat you like a lady doesn't deserve you and any woman who cannot treat you like a prince doesn't deserve you! Don't start what you can't handle! The skin is only a few centimeters deep and beneath that skin, there are 18million nerves passing information round. Whenever someone touches you sexually, your nerves sends info that are stored somewhere in your brain. That's why when you see the person later you remember the touch! You have imprints of people on your life through sexual relationships. Don't let anyone touch you in a way that is not holy. From hugs to kissing and then the deed happens unplanned! Once you mess up your sexual life, it messes up your spiritual life! Get it right! Exodus 26, 27 gives a summary of the Tabernacle. It was divided into the outer court, the Holy place, Holy of Holies. As a human being, your body is the outer court, your soul the holy place and your spirit the holy of holies! The outer court gave access to many levities and they brought their sacrifices there. Your body is your outer court many people will have access to you, you'll meet many boys/girls but be careful, many will come and go. Proverbs 4:23 Only a priests were allowed into the holy place. The holy in your body is your soul. Your emotions are conceived there. Before you let anyone touch your soul, be very careful! The reason many broken relationship ends up a soul tie is because they let someone else make an impact on their soul and no matter how much they try to forget the person it is difficult. Guard your soul; don't let just any nice person get in. The holy place had a lamp stand in it, anyone who must get into your holy place was be a lamp. Ladies, any man that wants to court/date/marry you must have more light than you already have! He needs to be the lamp! Don't settle for less! Only the High priest was allowed to enter into the holy of holies (Hebrews 9:7) ! He had to break through the veil to get in. There is only man allowed to get into you and that is your husband! When a man sleeps with a virgin, it's more than just sex! It's spiritual, it's a blood covenant! Guys note, everywhere you go as a man and have sexual releases, your testicles will testify against you! The reason God gave you two testicles is because the bible says out of 2 or more witnesses, a statement is established (Deuteronomy 17:6). There is a point when sexual activities go beyond the physical, it becomes a demonic activity! It is spiritual! Easy sex does not make more romance; it neither gives you joy and happiness! When you have sex while waiting to be married, you crush the foundation of your marriage. Don't let anyone blackmail you to stay in a relationship! After giving your life to Christ break away from every ungodly relationship! Titus 2:11-12 To get out: It requires the decision to maintain your integrity! It requires a bold step to confront ungodly relationship you are in! Break away and make a vow to be pure! Keep yourself and honour God with your life! No sex is safe sex! Desire change, deny yourself. I urge you to spread this message now and my God will richly bless you.
 

FG names new CDS, service chiefs



New Chief of Defence Staff, Vice Admiral Ola Ibrahim
President Goodluck Jonathan on Thursday named Vice Admiral Ola Ibrahim as the new Chief of Defence Staff.
According to a statement by the Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Dr. Reuben Abati, Ibrahim, who is from Kwara State, replaces Air Chief Marshal Oluseyi Petinrin, who retires from service.
Until his new appointment, Ibrahim was the Chief of Naval Staff.
The President also named Rear Admiral Dele Ezeoba as the new Chief of Naval Staff. Ezeoba is from Delta State.
Until his new appointment, Ezeoba was the Chief of Administration at the Defence Headquarters.
Jonathan also named Air Vice Marshall Alex Badeh from Adamawa State as the new Chief of Air Staff.
Badeh was until his new appointment the Air Officer Commanding Training Command, Kaduna.
The President however retained the incumbent Chief of Army Staff, Lt.-Gen. Azubuike Ihejirika, from Abia State.
Jonathan thanked the outgoing service chiefs for their meritorious and commendable service to the nation and wished them well in their future endeavours.
Ibrahim, the new CDS, was born on June 15, 1955.
A graduate of the Nigerian Defence Academy, Kaduna and the Armed Forces Command and Staff College, Jaji, he trained with the Royal and Indian Navies.
Ibrahim is a Navigation and Direction Specialist.
He holds a Bachelor of Laws degree from Ahmadu Bello University.
In 2002, he was at the Royal College of Defence Studies, United Kingdom and at the Department of War Studies and Public Policy, Kings College, University of London for his Masters’ degree.
Ibrahim had tours of duty on Nigerian Naval Ships in various capacities and is decorated with the Command of Sea Badge for successful command at Sea on various Nigerian Naval Ships.
He was a Directing Staff and a Chief Instructor at the Department of Maritime Warfare, Armed forces Command and Staff College, Jaji. He was Secretary to the Chief of Naval Staff before being appointed to command the Naval operations base, Nigerian Naval Ship BEECROFT in 2001.
In 2003, Ibrahim served as Commander Naval Task Group, Operation HARMONY in the Eastern Naval command, Calabar before he went to the National Defence College as a directing staff later same year.